Another day, another long drive to attend another appointment... This is becoming routine for us now (in the words of my husband "it's a sh**, but there are many others out there with worse problems").
This weeks journey took us to the Austin Hospital to visit the Genetics Department. We are looking for answers. For us Jaime's deaf diagnosis came as a shock, this is not something that ever entered our minds as a possibility, so here we are, on a quest to learn why.
1 in every 500 babies born in Australia will be diagnosed with some form of deafness. The most common cause of congenital hearing loss is genetic, a small percentage is caused by maternal illness (mumps, rubella or influenza) or exposure to toxins and, for others, they can't find an answer. Although I was healthy throughout my pregnancy we are investigating both disease related and genetic causes. We do not have to find out, however, having answers will put our minds at ease- some diseases and genetic causes can be associated with additional complications, I want to know if I need to be on the look out for any other problems. Having this knowledge will also allow my husband and I to make an informed decision if we decide to give Jaime a little brother or sister, to know if we have a 1 in 4 chance of another child with hearing loss or to know to watch out for maternal illness. This may not sway our decision, but rather prepare us for the road ahead...
This weeks visit involved a meeting with the genetics specialist, she informs me that there are hundreds of genetic causes of deafness, some are syndromic (associated with other abnormalities and developmental delays) others are isolated to hearing loss only. After the physical examination, it is determined that Jaime appears to be developing normally... given this, it was decided that we would begin with a test for the more common "deaf genes", these are the Connexin genes (Cx26 & Cx30), these genes affect the structures of the small hair cells within the cochlea and are most commonly associated with severe to profound hearing loss. If Jaime tests positive for the connexin malformation we may take comfort that her hearing loss should be an isolated problem, this will also mean that being a recessive gene a second child would have a 1in4 chance of being deaf and a 1in2 chance becoming a carrier of the gene (asymptomatic).
Genetic testing requires bloods to be taken and sent off to look for genetic markers, so far in Jaime's short life we have been back and forth for multiple blood test, up until now these have all been done via heal-prick, drop-by-drop (a long drawn out process when a large volume of blood is required), today Jaime had her first venus-puncture (bloods taken from a vein in her arm), a daunting prospect, however in the end a much less painful procedure for both baby and mum!
Now we wait... Results will take approximately one month, this will coincide nicely with our infectious disease specialist appointment, I hope between the two we might get our answer.
Thursday we ventured to Taralye for the first time. I was excited to see the campus facilities and meet some other mums with deaf children. For the first time I felt as if I wasn't alone, I felt understood. It is difficult to explain what it is like to talk to other parents and not having to worry about explaining things along the way (not that I mind) however it is nice to talk to parents that have been there, done that.
I left for home feeling positive, after the results of Mondays hearing test and the confusion I felt, I now felt a little clearer, I left with renewed optimism for Jaime's future, and most importantly a real excitement about the prospect of implantation. Watching the other children who had recently been implanted, and listening to the feedback from their parents, I desperately hope Jaime will be eligible for a cochlear too!
After all of the too-ing and fro-ing of this week I look forward to next week, only the one appointment at the Implant Clinic... We can finally put our feet up for a little while...
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Wednesday, 20 March 2013
Wednesday, 6 March 2013
We have a dream...
On Friday I met with one of the lovely staff from Taralye (one of the early intervention services available to deaf kids in Victoria). With their help, one of the tasks for the day was to set a goal for Jaime that we may aim to achieve.
At this point in time, the goal set was simply to in time, allow Jaime to attend a mainstream school and integrate well with her peers.
This task has got me thinking... What are our goals and aspirations for Jaime? What are our expectations? What challenges do we expect to face? ...and how will these change as time progresses.
I write this blog not only to share our story, our adventure through Jaime's quiet world, but to also create a record so that I may look back and reflect on my own outlook. Perhaps I will look back and laugh, perhaps I will shed some tears, or perhaps I will shake my head at how naive or anxious I have been.
At such a young age it is difficult to look much past tomorrow, yet so important to consider Jaime's future. Surely any parent can relate, we all hope our children will grow up happy and healthy, we hope our children will be intelligent and have friends... everyone wants that...
...I hope that Jaime may be able to hear her mothers voice, I hope that she may one day be able to laugh at her fathers jokes and I hope to hear the words "mummy" and "daddy", these dreams sound simple, but for Jaime these milestones will not come without their challenges.
Longer term, and a much broader goal, I hope that Jaime may achieve whatever she dreams without roadblocks in her way. Everyone's child will face hurdles, we just happen to already know some or hers.
I do not find this goal setting easy, I am constantly worrying if what I hope for Jaime is realistic and achievable. I am excited about beginning our journey with Taralye, I look forward to the support and guidance. What's more, the motto of Taralye "getting deaf kids talking" is exactly what we are hoping for.
When talking about hopes and aspirations, I may be moving forward and looking to the future however my husband is still stunned that Jaime is deaf! How can she be deaf? Everything about his daughter is perfect, how can her ears just be there as decoration?! My husband is thankful for the modern technology that may allow his beautiful daughter to hear, he is glad that we have the opportunity to communicate verbally with our daughter, he was struggling to come to terms with the prospect of having to learn something new, to have to sign; that may sound selfish, however you can't help your feelings (and I am not here to 'pretty up' our story).
Everyone goes through a form grieving, some may come to terms with their child's deafness in a matter of hours or days, others, who knows... This is why we all need to seek support and guidance, no-one needs to travel this journey alone.
At this point in time, the goal set was simply to in time, allow Jaime to attend a mainstream school and integrate well with her peers.
This task has got me thinking... What are our goals and aspirations for Jaime? What are our expectations? What challenges do we expect to face? ...and how will these change as time progresses.
I write this blog not only to share our story, our adventure through Jaime's quiet world, but to also create a record so that I may look back and reflect on my own outlook. Perhaps I will look back and laugh, perhaps I will shed some tears, or perhaps I will shake my head at how naive or anxious I have been.
At such a young age it is difficult to look much past tomorrow, yet so important to consider Jaime's future. Surely any parent can relate, we all hope our children will grow up happy and healthy, we hope our children will be intelligent and have friends... everyone wants that...
...I hope that Jaime may be able to hear her mothers voice, I hope that she may one day be able to laugh at her fathers jokes and I hope to hear the words "mummy" and "daddy", these dreams sound simple, but for Jaime these milestones will not come without their challenges.
Longer term, and a much broader goal, I hope that Jaime may achieve whatever she dreams without roadblocks in her way. Everyone's child will face hurdles, we just happen to already know some or hers.
I do not find this goal setting easy, I am constantly worrying if what I hope for Jaime is realistic and achievable. I am excited about beginning our journey with Taralye, I look forward to the support and guidance. What's more, the motto of Taralye "getting deaf kids talking" is exactly what we are hoping for.
When talking about hopes and aspirations, I may be moving forward and looking to the future however my husband is still stunned that Jaime is deaf! How can she be deaf? Everything about his daughter is perfect, how can her ears just be there as decoration?! My husband is thankful for the modern technology that may allow his beautiful daughter to hear, he is glad that we have the opportunity to communicate verbally with our daughter, he was struggling to come to terms with the prospect of having to learn something new, to have to sign; that may sound selfish, however you can't help your feelings (and I am not here to 'pretty up' our story).
Everyone goes through a form grieving, some may come to terms with their child's deafness in a matter of hours or days, others, who knows... This is why we all need to seek support and guidance, no-one needs to travel this journey alone.
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